This weekend thought, go out and build that boy. We have lots of them to work on. All parts are provided, No directions enclosed, just read your Bible for true direction.
It is easier to build boys, than to mend Men.
This week's promise: God celebrates family
What was the most effective discipline you have experienced?
Now his father, King David, had never disciplined him at any time, even by asking, "What are you going?"
1 Kings 1:6 NLT
Rebounding skills
Suppose you get home from grocery shopping and discover your six-year-old is eating candy you didn't buy. It might be tempting to just scold him, send him to his room, and let it go at that. After all, it's only worth a dollar, and you're tired. But you'd miss an opportunity to turn this "miss" into a second chance.
It would be better to take away any uneaten candy, put your little shoplifter back in the car, drive to the grocery store, hunt up the manager, and tell your kid to apologize. Pay for the candy and deduct it from the child's allowance. Then, if the culprit is truly sorry, be sure to express your forgiveness—and God's forgiveness, too.
You've just boxed out the opposition and put your kid in position to rightly rebound. Because there will come another time in that grocery store or when he's passing a coveted pair of Nukes or—who knows?
Ricky Birdsong in Coaching Your Kids in the Game of Life
The Bible tells us that parents have the primary responsibility for the spiritual development of our children. And nowhere is the job given only to mothers and grandmothers. As Moses told the people of Israel,
"Repeat [the command of God] again and again to your children" (Deut. 6:7).
Why not begin today?
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