Opinions

Often in life we are confronted with people that have to be right. This is in response to Shades of Pink, Opinion post.
My life needs order for my health to stay intack. It has always been that way for me, so Sheri you have my genetic trait that I am not fond of. I too get very nervous when an issue comes up, One I do not want to deal with.
However you can not sit and let other people run your lives. You have to stay sweet but forceful. When I am upset other people suffer.
The one thing I will always stand up for is my children and grandchildren. If anyone says something about them, I will be ready to fight. My exterior self may seem poised but watch the eyes they will tell you anything you want to know. LOL.
Before Charles and Shelle married, shelle came into Wards, They were having a quarrell. I told her then, "I will always be on his side. Do not ever tell me bad things about him, or belittle him in my presence, with the exception of physical abuse, as I will not waver." Now if any of my children are abusive, You bet I will say something, so if you want to have my wrath, just hit your spouse, and let me find out. There is nothing lower than a man that hits a woman. Or a woman that hits a man.
How did I get on that subject? Whew, not my favorite subject.
So when you were pushed, you were right to use the "I am the Mother and I said, NO!
So with that I say, Have a great day and remember God knows and Mama usually finds out.